{"id":2766,"date":"2026-04-09T20:54:00","date_gmt":"2026-04-09T18:54:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/michaelgross.online\/?p=2766"},"modified":"2026-08-25T05:09:24","modified_gmt":"2026-08-25T03:09:24","slug":"verliebt-ist-wer-wartet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/michaelgross.online\/?p=2766","title":{"rendered":"Verliebt ist, wer wartet"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-930feb06 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Verliebt ist, wer wartet<\/h4>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-930feb06 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:49%\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"font-size:clamp(0.929rem, 0.929rem + ((1vw - 0.2rem) * 0.819), 1.4rem);\">Die Schick\u00adsals\u00adi\u00adden\u00adti\u00adt\u00e4t des Lie\u00adben\u00adden ist genau dies: Ich bin der, der war\u00adtet. Das War\u00adten ist eine Behe\u00adxung: ich habe den Befehl erhal\u00adten, mich nicht zu r\u00fch\u00adren. Die Abwe\u00adsen\u00adheit wird zur akti\u00adven Pra\u00adxis, zur Gesch\u00e4f\u00adtig\u00adkeit (die mich hin\u00addert, irgend etwas ande\u00adres zu tun); es kommt zur Aus\u00adar\u00adbei\u00adtung einer Fik\u00adti\u00adon mit viel\u00adf\u00e4l\u00adti\u00adgen Rol\u00adlen (Zwei\u00adfeln, Vor\u00adw\u00fcr\u00adfen, Anwand\u00adlun\u00adgen von Begier\u00adde und Melan\u00adcho\u00adlie). <\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:1%\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"font-size:clamp(0.929rem, 0.929rem + ((1vw - 0.2rem) * 0.819), 1.4rem);\">Denn wer war\u00adtet, spielt unbe\u00adwusst immer die M\u00f6g\u00adlich\u00adkeit durch, ver\u00adlas\u00adsen wor\u00adden zu sein. Das War\u00adten der Lie\u00adben\u00adden kn\u00fcpft an das ers\u00adte \u00fcber\u00adw\u00e4l\u00adti\u00adgen\u00adde Fort\u00adsein der Mut\u00adter an. Nur ein kur\u00adzer Augen\u00adblick, hei\u00dft es, schei\u00addet die Zeit, in der das klei\u00adne Kind sei\u00adne Mut\u00adter noch f\u00fcr abwe\u00adsend h\u00e4lt, von dem Moment, in dem es sie tot glaubt. Jedes War\u00adten auf eine gelieb\u00adte Per\u00adson r\u00fchrt von Fer\u00adne an die\u00adse Erfah\u00adrung.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:10px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"font-size:clamp(0.929rem, 0.929rem + ((1vw - 0.2rem) * 0.819), 1.4rem);\">Roland Bar\u00adthes: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.getabstract.com\/de\/zusammenfassung\/fragmente-einer-sprache-der-liebe\/34736\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Frag\u00admen\u00adte einer Spra\u00adche der Lie\u00adbe (1977)<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/michaelgross.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/IMG_9551-1024x683.webp\" alt class=\"wp-image-1350\" srcset=\"https:\/\/michaelgross.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/IMG_9551-1024x683.webp 1024w, https:\/\/michaelgross.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/IMG_9551-300x200.webp 300w, https:\/\/michaelgross.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/IMG_9551-768x512.webp 768w, https:\/\/michaelgross.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/IMG_9551-1536x1025.webp 1536w, https:\/\/michaelgross.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/IMG_9551.webp 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Dilek K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fc\u00adky\u0131l\u00admaz, Ahmet Ye\u015fil Sanat Gale\u00adri\u00adsi, Limon\u00adluk Mah., Yeni\u015fe\u00adhir, 09.04.2026<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:40px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ver\u00adliebt ist, wer war\u00adtet Die Schick\u00adsals\u00adi\u00adden\u00adti\u00adt\u00e4t des Lie\u00adben\u00adden ist genau dies: Ich bin der, der war\u00adtet. Das War\u00adten ist eine Behe\u00adxung: ich habe den Befehl erhal\u00adten, mich nicht zu r\u00fch\u00adren. Die Abwe\u00adsen\u00adheit wird zur akti\u00adven Pra\u00adxis, zur Gesch\u00e4f\u00adtig\u00adkeit (die mich hin\u00addert, irgend etwas ande\u00adres zu tun); es kommt zur Aus\u00adar\u00adbei\u00adtung einer Fik\u00adti\u00adon mit viel\u00adf\u00e4l\u00adti\u00adgen Rol\u00adlen [\u2026]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2773,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2766","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/michaelgross.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/IMG_9551_halb.webp","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/michaelgross.online\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2766","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/michaelgross.online\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/michaelgross.online\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/michaelgross.online\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/michaelgross.online\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2766"}],"version-history":[{"count":15,"href":"https:\/\/michaelgross.online\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2766\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3124,"href":"https:\/\/michaelgross.online\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2766\/revisions\/3124"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/michaelgross.online\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2773"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/michaelgross.online\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2766"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/michaelgross.online\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2766"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/michaelgross.online\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2766"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}